Loving is nothing but thinking that a person is important to you.
Loving is nothing but thinking that a person is important to you-
So the emotion of love is triggered when your mind realizes that someone is important to you. The person’s assertiveness, financial success or his ability to make you laugh are among the things that might attract you to him.Your mind is always in constant search of methods that can make you happy and if it realized that someone can help you feel better or can help you satisfy an important need that you have then there is a big chance that you are going to fall in love with him. So it’s your mind that determines whether you will fall in love with a person or not (sorry Hollywood).
Hatred And The Mind
Hatred is also controlled by the mind and it’s a method your mind uses to keep you away from those who can harm your well being. Suppose you were not an assertive person and that there was an arrogant guy who always used to make fun of you in front of others.
In such a case your mind will realize that this person causes you pain and that staying away from him is the right action. But how will your mind motivate you to stay away from that person? Simply by using the emotion of hatred your mind will ensure that you will avoid that person as much as you can.
So again it’s your mind that determines whether you will hate a certain person or not.